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obstacles

8 August 2012 by Andrea Leave a Comment

We all have obstacles to contend with, whether it’s in our design projects or just life in general. It doesn’t matter how experienced you are or how big or small your budget is, you will face obstacles.

I discovered an obstacle the other day when I tried to fix my bed…

Here are some design obstacles that I can think of off the top of my head…

  • Little or no money
  • Project fails
  • Not enough time, due to a job, kids, or other obligations
  • Health concerns
  • Planning an eventual move
  • Lack of consensus on design plan with significant other
  • No inspiration
  • Fear
  • Any combination or all of the above

There are probably countless other obstacles that can prevent one from making a house a home. The question is, do you want to make changes to your home?

If the answer is yes, then the obstacles can be overcome. But on your terms. In your own time.

Don’t feel pressured to be like anyone else.  No one but you truly understands the obstacles you’re facing.  Don’t let those obstacles prevent you from making your creative dreams come true. Sometimes we need to release ourselves from expectations – the way that others think things should be or the timeline they try to impose on you, or even expecting too much of ourselves.

Little or no money

Get resoureceful! I’m not ashamed to have limited funds and you shouldn’t be either! There are plenty of freebies or cheap options out there.

Consider these…

  • Scanning your neighbors’ trash, or as it’s known in trendy design circles – Dumpster Diving! You know the old saw…one man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Put it to good work! One of my favorite pieces is my zebra ottoman, which I pulled out of a neighbor’s trash pile and revamped to fabulousity!
  • Accepting hand-me-downs – Sure your mother-in-law’s chair might be super-frumpy, but recovering it with your fave fabric will make it frumpilicious!
  • Shop Goodwill and other local thrift shops – Never know what you can find!
  • Repurpose to create new things, like I did to make this “plant stand“.
  • And never forget how inexpensive spray paint and wall paint are. Save your pennies and splurge on the paint, which can make the crappiest tchotchke look awesome!

Project fails

All I can say about this is plenty of my projects are failures. I guess that’s how we learn. Don’t know if you’ve noticed, but it seems that a lot more design shows are beginning to share the inner workings of how they put together their designs and how they stage rooms, and many are now also sharing project snafus. That’s refreshing. Because if even the big-time pros with a design staff have an occasional project fail, then why wouldn’t you and I?

My thought on project fails is learn from it and move on.

Not enough time

Yes, we live in a busy, busy world, where sometimes it feels like our lives aren’t our own. A 24/7 place where we’re always connected, companies suck up more and more of our personal lives, kids are overscheduled, and we’re generally encouraged to go, go, go.

I get it. I live it. But somehow we have to steal some time back to make our nests a place of calm respite. To make them a place we love to be. Our favorite place in the whole world.

I don’t know how to tell you how to make that happen, other than to say that we need to get comfy with doing things in small increments of time and maybe not finishing the project today. I am the Grand Pubah of Unfinished Projects, the Queen of Curing, but eventually the important stuff rises to the top of the heap.

Learn to pick the important stuff off the top of the heap. Eventually, your vision will be realized. Besides, design is an always-changing, ever-moving target, right?

Health concerns

There are plenty of people out there, quietly suffering with health issues that can zap their energy and ability to start or finish projects. Even if they have amazing ideas, they may not be able to bring their ideas to life.

If you have a health issue that slows your dreams, just do what you can when you can.  I have struggled with this too, and often wonder if I’ll ever get my old energy levels back.  Perhaps not.  But I’m not going to let it stop me.  Does it slow me and my progress down?  For sure.  But I just keep on trucking, sometimes moving at a snail’s pace, but always continuing to dream about my future projects, and I hope you will too.

Planning an eventual move

Yeah, you’re busted. Just because you’re planning to move in 6 months or a year or ten years, doesn’t mean you’re off the hook for feathering your nest.

You have two choices. You can leave your place bland and impersonal because you might be moving eventually, or you can make it into a place that you love, starting today!

Lack of consensus on design plan

It’s called compromise, baby.

No, I don’t mean the kind of compromise that we both decide to like my ideas always. (Although wouldn’t that be awesome?)

If you and your signif other can’t agree on one project, I’m guessing that there are plenty more projects to start on that you do agree on. Move on to something different and come back to this one later. Maybe one or both of you will have a change of heart or your overall vision will change.

If that doesn’t work, there’s always couples counseling.

No inspiration

Can you say Pinterest? With Pinterest and all of the design blogs out there, none of us have any excuse not to get inspired.

Don’t have ideas? Then copy someone else’s and apply them to your space. Eventually, you’ll get inspired with your own ideas or offshoots of others’ ideas. Go for it!

Fear

We’re all afraid to some degree. What if it doesn’t work out? Then you’ll learn from your failure (see Project Fails above) and move on and try again. If you’re really fearful, start small. Something small and inexpensive isn’t going to destroy your world if it goes wrong. But if it goes right, it may just rock your world! So…

Just Do It!

The message here is to do what you can, when you can. Let yourself off the hook if you don’t work at the same pace as others. Forgive yourself and get comfortable with who you are and your obstacles won’t seem like such difficult problems to overcome.  They’ll eventually become part of the terrain that is your life to navigate. Don’t worry, you’ll be great!

find your creative voice :: day 10 :: if you only had one day left, how would you spend it?

6 June 2012 by Andrea 2 Comments

This is the tenth installment in a series, Find Your Creative Voice, based on the article 10 Questions that Will Help You Find Your Voice over at Accidental Creative, because it’s so important to find your voice when building a comfortable nest, be it a one room apartment or a sprawling mansion. I will be answering the questions that author Todd Henry has posed, and I hope that you will answer them too.

In case you missed the first, second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, or ninth installment…

Question 10 :: If you only had one day left, how would you spend it?

No, I wouldn’t spend my last day plunger fighting. But I would want to spend it with those two crazy awesome people in the pic – my amazing kids!

My kids drive me to excel and to find my creative voice. They inspire me to greatness. Because I want to set an example for them of someone who has found what they want in life and pursues it with passion. If I can teach that to them, what an incredible lesson!

So if I had only one day left, I’d spend it with them, the most important people in my world. I’d probably spend the first 30-60 minutes getting all business out of the way – do this, don’t do that, call about this, etc. And then I’d spend the rest of the time with them creating awesome memories. Which is what I want to do with them every single day.

If you only had one day left, how would you spend it?

Feel free to start a dialogue on the subject of creativity and if you only had one day left how you would spend it in the comments and on the Homage Style Facebook page.

Hope you enjoyed the series, and most of all, may your find your creative self!

find your creative voice :: day 9 :: what change would you like to see in the world?

4 June 2012 by Andrea 3 Comments

This is the ninth installment in a series, Find Your Creative Voice, based on the article 10 Questions that Will Help You Find Your Voice over at Accidental Creative, because it’s so important to find your voice when building a comfortable nest, be it a one room apartment or a sprawling mansion. I will be answering the questions that author Todd Henry has posed, and I hope that you will answer them too.

In case you missed the first, second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, or eighth installment…

Question 9 :: What change would you like to see in the world?

I’m sure that there’s plenty of change that each of us would like to see in the world. I don’t know that I can reasonably narrow it down to one single change.

But there is something that irritates me in the design world that I would like to see change. The attitude of “let’s change out everything and get everything new.”

I see it a lot on house & home shows, especially those where people are looking to buy a new home. They will walk into a perfectly fine home, look at the bathroom or kitchen and say, “Oh, this is a complete renovation,” when in fact the room was just fine.

It’s part of the reason that I prefer to do home styling rather than work as a full-service designer. I can’t bear to see all of the waste, just because styles have changed a little.

The change that I would like to see in the world is for first world inhabitants to learn to live smaller. Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you should. Just because you have the money to renovate your entire kitchen, doesn’t mean that everything needs to go and be replaced with new.

This is not to say that I will never renovate anything, because I’m sure that I will. But I will strive for a timeless look that can survive fads and won’t need to be renovated every decade.

It’s painful to see so much waste in the world, so much that goes to the landfill. Let’s all move toward a world in which we reuse that which can be reused or give it to someone who will reuse it. I’m sure there are plenty of people who would love your old out-of-date kitchen cabinets. So while I’m sure you think it’s cool to smash them for the TV cameras, it would be so much cooler to casually unscrew them and let someone reuse them.

That is the change that I would like to see in the world.

What change would you like to see in the world?

Feel free to start a dialogue on the subject of creativity and what change you would like to see in the world in the comments and on the Homage Style Facebook page.

Up next in the series…If you had one day left, how would you spend it?

find your creative voice :: day 8 :: what platform do you own now?

2 June 2012 by Andrea 3 Comments

This is the eighth installment in a series, Find Your Creative Voice, based on the article 10 Questions that Will Help You Find Your Voice over at Accidental Creative, because it’s so important to find your voice when building a comfortable nest, be it a one room apartment or a sprawling mansion. I will be answering the questions that author Todd Henry has posed, and I hope that you will answer them too.

In case you missed the first, second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, or seventh installment…

Question 8 :: What platform do you own now?

You can have all the dreams in the world, but if you don’t make a move to follow through and take steps to begin the journey to make those dreams come through, what good are they?

Sometimes – many times – we may not be in the perfect situation to do a full launch of the major dream. Just as often there is a way to kick it off low key. Small steps, you know?

So what platform do you own now? What can you start doing now?

Homes are my passion. I want to buy them, design them, renovate them, and decorate them.

However, right now I’m not in the financial position to launch a full-scale renovation operation. I’m a single mom with two kids, one of them in college, plus I work full time in another industry. So it’s just not feasible now.

But I do have a platform I own now…my house. Why not start with what I have? It’s the place that I can begin to launch my dreams. It may not the ultimate end goal, but it’s what I can do for now. The place that I can practice my craft. My launching pad.

What platform do you own now?

Feel free to start a dialogue on the subject of creativity and what platform you own now in the comments and on the Homage Style Facebook page.

Up next in the series…What change would you like to see in the world?

find your creative voice :: a series :: day 7 :: what would blow your mind?

31 May 2012 by Andrea 3 Comments

This is the seventh installment in a series, Find Your Creative Voice, based on the article 10 Questions that Will Help You Find Your Voice over at Accidental Creative, because it’s so important to find your voice when building a comfortable nest, be it a one room apartment or a sprawling mansion. I will be answering the questions that author Todd Henry has posed, and I hope that you will answer them too.

In case you missed the first, second, third, fourth, fifth, or sixth installment…

Question 7 :: What would blow your mind?

This one is easy! See day 5 and day 6!

It would completely blow my mind if I could spend my days working on homes. All things homes. Decorating, designing, renovating. You know the drill.

I love homes. I love dreaming about them. I love dreaming about blowing out this wall or designing a room a particular way. I love being on site when a house is being renovated. I love it all!

So it probably comes as no surprise that it would blow my mind every single day if I could make this my full-time gig. Someday soon, I hope.

The original article at Accidental Creative suggests that you list 40 things that would blow your mind. I won’t bore you with my entire list here, but try writing down the entire list…it’s great fun and pretty damn inspirational!

So again I will ask…what would blow your mind?

Feel free to start a dialogue on the subject of creativity and what would blow your mind in the comments and on the Homage Style Facebook page.

Up next in the series…What platform do you own now?

find your creative voice :: day 6 :: if you had all the time and money in the world…

31 May 2012 by Andrea 3 Comments

This is the sixth installment in a series, Find Your Creative Voice, based on the article 10 Questions that Will Help You Find Your Voice over at Accidental Creative, because it’s so important to find your voice when building a comfortable nest, be it a one room apartment or a sprawling mansion. I will be answering the questions that author Todd Henry has posed, and I hope that you will answer them too.

In case you missed the first, second, third, fourth, or fifth installment…

Question 6 :: If you had all the time and money in the world, what would you do?

See Day 4. What gives me hope.

Because what gives me hope is the very same thing that I would do if time and money were of no consequence.

Houses.

Glorious houses.

I’d buy them and fix them up. Maybe sell them, maybe rent them, maybe both.

Sounds like I’m really beginning to put a name to the face of my dreams.

How about you? If you had all the time and money in the world, what would you do?

Feel free to start a dialogue on the subject of creativity and what you would do if time and money were no object in the comments and on the Homage Style Facebook page.

Up next in the series…What would blow your mind?

find your creative voice :: day 5 :: what do you want to be when you grow up?

30 May 2012 by Andrea 2 Comments

This is the fifth installment in a series, Find Your Creative Voice, based on the article 10 Questions that Will Help You Find Your Voice over at Accidental Creative, because it’s so important to find your voice when building a comfortable nest, be it a one room apartment or a sprawling mansion. I will be answering the questions that author Todd Henry has posed, and I hope that you will answer them too.

In case you missed the first, second, third, or fourth installment…

Question 5 :: What did you want to be when you grew up?

Or, if you don’t think you’ve grown up yet, what do you want to be when you grow up?

To be honest, I went through a heavenly host of career choices as a kid, from teacher to writer to actor to brain surgeon, and finally to opera singer, which is what I ended up studying in college. And is not what I’m doing now.

While it’s quite motley selection of professions, one thread runs through most of them – creativity.

I’ve always been a creative type, beginning with Mom-inspired crafty projects and knitting and sewing. But the difference between me and my mom was that I was always a crafting risk taker, which would end up serving me well in my adult life, allowing me to just jump in and do things – decorating things, that is – that might scare most people. After all, what couldn’t be solved with some Kilz and a couple of coats of paint?

It wasn’t until I owned a home that I was exposed to what I consider to be my true talent – decorating and renovating homes. A late bloomer of sorts. Which is why I don’t always think there’s a clear-cut direct link from your childhood dreams to your adult talents. Sometimes, it’s more of a progression. Learning this and that, leading to the next thing, then the next, and suddenly you realize what you want to be when you grow up. Even if you’re already grown.

And sometimes it’s a case of having other life responsibilities when you finally figure out what you want to be when you grow up. Like me. So that’s when it’s critically important to do little things to feed your creative soul, and if you want to go in that direction, make plans to gradually transition into your new career as your reponsibilities permit.

Honor your path, no matter what it is. And every week, do a little something, moving you toward your new creative life!

What do you want to be when you grow up?

Feel free to start a dialogue on the subject of creativity and what you want to be when you grow up in the comments and on the Homage Style Facebook page.

Up next in the series…If you had all the time and money in the world, what would you do?

find your creative voice :: day 4 :: what gives you hope?

29 May 2012 by Andrea 3 Comments

This is the fourth installment in a series, Find Your Creative Voice, based on the article 10 Questions that Will Help You Find Your Voice over at Accidental Creative, because it’s so important to find your voice when building a comfortable nest, be it a one room apartment or a sprawling mansion. I will be answering the questions that author Todd Henry has posed, and I hope that you will answer them too.

In case you missed the first, second, or third installment…

Question 3 :: What gives you hope?

As the saying goes, hope springs eternal. Without hope, what is there?

What gives me hope? Like so many, I hope that some day human beings will be able to live together in peace, accept and celebrate one another’s differences, and that all will have what they need to exist and support their families. Whether or not that will ever happen, who knows.

But on a more personal note, it gives me hope that maybe some day I will be able to purchase a house to renovate, which I could then rent or resell.

It gives me great hope to imagine fixing up a shabby interior and dreaming up an amazing new design for the house.

And it gives me hope that I can share my experiences here on this blog, and maybe, just maybe, touch someone who finds it interesting and even helpful.

It gives me great hope to know that somewhere out there is a tribe of people who love what I love, just waiting for me to join in the fun.

And finally, it gives me great hope that maybe some day, I can spend my days doing this that I love so dearly.

We always have hope…

What gives you hope?

Feel free to start a dialogue on the subject of creativity and what you have mastered in the comments and on the Homage Style Facebook page.

Up next in the series…As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?

find your creative voice :: day 3 :: what have you mastered?

29 May 2012 by Andrea 2 Comments

This is the third installment in a series, Find Your Creative Voice, based on the article 10 Questions that Will Help You Find Your Voice over at Accidental Creative, because it’s so important to find your voice when building a comfortable nest, be it a one room apartment or a sprawling mansion. I will be answering the questions that author Todd Henry has posed, and I hope that you will answer them too.

In case you missed the first or second installment…

Question 3 :: What have you mastered?

Mastery. Now we’re getting to the meat and potatoes.

I have mastered the unique ability to let a home speak to me and to design it accoringly. To take the hints given to me by the fixed assets of a home and add complimentary design.

And on a smaller scale, i have mastered the ability to move decorative elements around, to edit a vignette – picture the movements of a magician playing a shell game – and to make that grouping of elements sing.

I have also mastered the ability to bring together unique, and often dissimilar, items together to create an interesting artistic display.

To be honest, it’s difficult to put into words what I think that I have mastered. I was raised in an era that sharing mastery of something is tantamount to bragging. But I said it anyway and hope that you will also get all introspective and braggy and discover and share your special talents.

What have you mastered?

Feel free to start a dialogue on the subject of creativity and what you have mastered in the comments and on the Homage Style Facebook page.

Up next in the series…What Gives You Hope?

find your creative voice :: day 2 :: what makes you cry?

27 May 2012 by Andrea 3 Comments

This is the second installment in a series, Find Your Creative Voice, based on the article 10 Questions that Will Help You Find Your Voice over at Accidental Creative, because it’s so important to find your voice when building a comfortable nest, be it a one room apartment or a sprawling mansion. I will be answering the questions that author Todd Henry has posed, and I hope that you will answer them too.

In case you missed the first installment…

Question 2 :: What makes you cry?

I’m not much of a crying type these days, which I suppose is a good thing. Some of the things that bring me to tears are serious tragedies, like the things that make me angry.

But there are things that make me feel sad and wistful, with a sense of “if only,” much of it having to do with home and family.

It is sad to see families separated from one another and separated from their homes, as so many have been recently through job loss and foreclosure.

Families should have some place to call their own, no matter how small – a place where they can feel shielded from how harsh the world can be sometimes.

While human tragedy is certainly of much greater importance than what happens to any building, it still does instill a sense of melancholy in my heart when I see the demise of a former beauty like this one…

…who stands empty, lonely, and in disrepair on the fringes of my town. It leads me to wonder what lives were lived there and what memories are lost from families over the generations.

I wish I could save these beautiful structures and the families who lived in them, as well as the families who would so benefit be restoring homes like this. Maybe someday that wish will come true. Seems like I’m uncovering part of my creative voice already…

What makes you cry?

Feel free to start a dialogue on the subject of creativity and what makes you cry in the comments and on the Homage Style Facebook page.

Up next in the series…What Have You Mastered?

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